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November 25, 2007 - Mel’s fiancé is 10,000 miles away. They’ve never kissed, held hands or even touched each other, despite it being a year since they met. It may be a long time yet before they can be together; with a lot of waiting, hard work, bureaucratic red tape and shared grief. But this relationship, against all odds, is the most satisfying, the deepest, the most empowering, life-changing experience of Mel’s life. It’s rock solid…and for once, she’s not scared.
A visit to any internet forum in which women's self esteem is discussed reveals a disturbing pattern. Women in relationships are afraid…afraid of saying and doing the wrong thing; afraid of losing their partners; afraid of staying miserable. Those who aren’t afraid tend to end up on their own. But one woman learned to do it differently.
After 47 years Mel was completely exhausted from the adrenalin drain of constant fear and confusion about this basic emotional need - love. She was a hair’s breadth away from giving up when she met the man she now plans to marry.
Months later, the inevitable issues surfaced. They talked. They argued. They pleaded. But after trying ‘everything’, the downward spiral relentlessly continued. Mel did what women invariably do. She looked for answers, afraid to go on, afraid not to. Half a dozen relationship rescue guides later she finally found what she needed - a relationship course that removed the fear and put her on confident footing. This was life-changing.
Mel discovered something she thought was impossible – that no matter how old you are or what stage of a relationship you’re in, love doesn't have to equal misery. Despite the evidence - escalating divorce rates, the single status of her intelligent, attractive female friends, the cynicism and unhappiness of her married friends – Mel realised that satisfying love relationships are within her grasp. They’re within every woman’s grasp she says, ‘if only we know how to be true to ourselves.’
It doesn’t seem like an earth-shattering concept but most people don't really grasp it. It takes work. It takes knowledge, understanding and practice. The average person needs a guide, one that doesn’t give the usual superficial answers to a profoundly deep problem. Mel got lucky. She found a relationship course that empowered her and as a result, her relationship, which once seemed doomed, is now flourishing.
www.BeIrresistibleToMen.com was established in order to share this freedom with other women. Further information can be found at http://womenandrelationships.blogspot.com
If you'd like more information about this topic, or to schedule an interview with Mel, please call Melinda Kahler on 617 46598382 or via email on melinda.kahler ( @ ) bigpond dot com